{"id":258752,"date":"2012-02-12T12:09:35","date_gmt":"2012-02-12T12:09:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/wp\/?p=252"},"modified":"2012-02-12T12:09:35","modified_gmt":"2012-02-12T12:09:35","slug":"nueve-tareas-para-un-buen-matrimonio-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/?p=258752","title":{"rendered":"Nueve tareas para un buen matrimonio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Los estudios realizados acerca de que es lo que hace que un matrimonio funcione muestran que <span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong>las personas que mantienen un buen matrimonio han conseguido cumplir las siguientes &#8220;tareas&#8221; psicol\u00f3gicas:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Separarse emocionalmente de la familia en la que han crecido<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">; no hasta el punto del distanciamiento, pero si lo suficiente para que <strong>su identidad sea distinta<\/strong> a la de sus padres y hermanos.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Desarrollar la uni\u00f3n en base a una intimidad e identidad compartida<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">, y al mismo tiempo <strong>respetar<\/strong> los l\u00edmites que protegen <strong>la autonom\u00eda de cada miembro<\/strong> de la pareja.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Establecer una relaci\u00f3n sexual plena y placentera<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"> y <strong>protegerla de las intromisiones<\/strong> del entorno laboral y las obligaciones familiares.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Para las parejas que tienen hijos, <span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\">asumir el papel de la paternidad y absorber el impacto de la llegada de un beb\u00e9<\/strong><\/span>. Aprender a continuar trabajando en <strong>proteger la privacidad <\/strong>de los dos miembros del matrimonio <strong>como pareja<\/strong>.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Afrontar y dominar las crisis inevitables de la vida<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Mantener la fuerza del v\u00ednculo conyugal ante la adversidad<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">. El matrimonio debe ser un <strong>refugio seguro <\/strong>en el que la pareja sea <strong>capaz de expresar sus diferencias, enfado y conflictos<\/strong>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Utilizar el humor y la risa<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"> para mantener las cosas en <strong>perspectiva<\/strong> y <strong>evitar el aburrimiento y la soledad<\/strong>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Nutrir la relaci\u00f3n y apoyarse mutuamente<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">, satisfaciendo las <strong>necesidades de dependencia<\/strong> de los c\u00f3nyuges y ofreciendo <strong>aliento y apoyo continuo<\/strong>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; vertical-align: top; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #a30f37;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">Mantener vivas las primeras im\u00e1genes idealizadas y rom\u00e1nticas del enamoramiento<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">, al mismo tiempo que se afronta <strong>la realidad de los cambios <\/strong>provocados por el paso del tiempo.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;\" lang=\"EN-GB\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Agradecimientos a Judith S. Wallerstein, PhD, coautora del libro \u201c<em><span style=\"font-style: normal; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;\">The Good Marriage: How and Why Love Lasts\u201d.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><em><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal; font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;\" lang=\"EN-GB\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify; line-height: 15.6pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;\"><span style=\"color: #4f4f4f;\"><em><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Asociaci\u00f3n de Psicolog\u00eda Americana<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/span><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Los estudios realizados acerca de que es lo que hace que un matrimonio funcione muestran que las personas que mantienen un buen matrimonio han conseguido cumplir las siguientes &#8220;tareas&#8221; psicol\u00f3gicas: Separarse emocionalmente de la familia en la que han crecido; no hasta el punto del distanciamiento, pero si lo suficiente para que su identidad sea [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-258752","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psicologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/258752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=258752"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/258752\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=258752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=258752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psicologiaoviedo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=258752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}